Dealing with an unexpected death is one of the most tragic things that a person can experience. Your heart is broken by the loss of a loved one, whether it’s a friend, parent, child, or spouse. There are many things to do following a death like this, and you should know where to turn. You will need support, help, community, suicide cleanup, and other guidance from people around you.
When you experience the unimaginable, you are not alone. Follow these steps to help you understand where to turn.
1. Work with First Responders and Law Enforcement
Any time there is an unattended death, an investigation is required. Whether it’s a trauma scene, old age, a suicide, or something else entirely, there was no witness to the unfortunate demise. The first responders and law enforcement officers will be required to investigate the scene, inspect the body, and request an autopsy.
This can be overwhelming to the people left behind as you may get asked questions that are tough. Try to stay calm and just tell them what you know to help the process along. With any luck, the first responders and officers will be caring and compassionate for you to try to make this as easy as possible.
These teams are here to help you, and working with them will be one of the first responsibilities you need to consider.
2. Hire Professional Suicide Cleanup
No matter what caused the scene in front of you, you should never try to clean it up on your own. Any scene with human blood or fluids is considered a biohazard. Even when you know the individual intimately, there are certain hazards of exposing yourself to these things.
Don’t take the risk. Not only will that scene be very difficult for you, but you are not trained or prepared for this cleaning task. You need to hire a professional cleaning team that has experience working with unexpected death scenarios.
The professionals will be discreet and kind. They can handle everything from cleaning stains to sanitizing the area and restoring the space. They will ensure the affected areas are back to normal and safe to utilize again. Trust them to help you with this part of things.
3. Notify Those Who Need to Know
One of the hardest tasks for you will likely be notifying everyone. Right away, you just need to focus on notifying the closest friends and family members and working through service and funeral details.
Once you get past the initial challenges, there may be other parties to notify to ensure things are taken care of.
- Investment firms
- Legal parties
Many of these you can figure out as you go and notify when necessary. For now, focus on the closest loved ones. Telling people is hard, so let others help you spread the word in this capacity.
4. Lean on Support as Much as Possible
Handling a death in the family is always hard. It seems to be even more difficult when it is an unexpected death. You’re grieving, you have unanswered questions, and there are so many things weighing on you to take care of.
You need to know that you are not alone. It is so important to use the people around you who are there to support you. Let them be there for you and allow them to help you as much as they can.
As a grieving loved one, you will likely need to tap into other support as well. Find out what resources and support groups are available in your community. There are others just like you who have been through this or are in similar situations. Together, you can work through it all. Don’t be afraid to seek counseling or therapy. All of these things are there for a reason.
This is not the time to be stubborn and just try to push through it alone. You absolutely are not alone. Use the support and love available to you.
Take It One Day at a Time
After the initial hustle and bustle of working through the investigation, hiring cleanup, and sorting out funeral details, that is when things really get hard. You may feel numb at first, and that’s ok. You will make it through this, especially if you lean on support and take care of yourself along the way.
Just take it one day at a time. Some days will be harder than others. You will always have a void where that loved one was. As time passes, you will find ways to continue forward. You never lose that love; the days just get a little easier.
Let ONEighty Solutions Help with Suicide Cleanup
Understanding support and leaning on those around you is so important. You shouldn’t have to worry about the details. ONEighty Solutions is here for you to handle the cleanup detail. Give us a call night or day, and we will be there quickly to discreetly and compassionately take care of the cleanup process.
Contact us today, and let us handle this one for you.